Ridiculous Neighbors Request That Golden Retriever 'Tommy' Be Constrained & Banned From Courtyard Despite Living In Dog Friendly Apartment Complex

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    Font - Posted by u/squarecut_5 Partassipant [1] 12 days ago AITA for not giving in to my neighbors demands about my dog?
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    Font - I (M33) stay in an apartment complex with my golden retriever. Tommy is lovable and eager to make friends with others. I keep a strong hold on his leash to ensure he doesn't usher towards those passing by because he wants to be friends. Only when folks ask to say hi/introduce their dogs is when I let Tommy befriend them.
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    Font - • The corridor from the elevator in my building to my apartment is a narrow one. Think hotel corridor. While walking Tommy back home one day, a family of three ( "granny", "mother" and "daughter") outright lost it. They started howling in fear even though Tommy was on the other end of the hallway and on leash. I asked them to relax and told them that he is not aggressive. But they still walked by while thrusting their bodies against the wall in fear. Muttered something in their native dia
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    Font - • A few days later, I was walking Tommy in the courtyard. The surrounding apartments have glass doors. The entire area outside these apartments is technically part of the common courtyard. No exclusive rights to anyone. This walk happened for about 15 min and then we went back in.
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    Font - • The next day I got a call from the leasing office. A "formal complaint" had been made against myself for endangering the lives of the residents. Granny and mother alleged that Tommy was too "large" to be living in the premises and that "no matter how domesticated, a dog is a wild animal" They alleged that since Tommy was walking in the courtyard, their daughter was traumatized riding her bike there. I helped them understand that Tommy has literally never hurt a fly and I had him on leas
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    Font - • All this apparently was not enough since granny and mother now started alleging that I was being unreasonable and that "dogs should not be given equal preference to humans." They said they wanted me to not use the courtyard at all with Tommy and to only use the elevator on the far end of the hallway so that I do not cross outside their apartment with Tommy. I told them that they were being absolutely ridiculous and that for me my dog mattered far more than random humans I did not know p
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    Font - ● I pay 50 bucks as pet charges every month. Tommy is up to date on all vaccinations and he is fully trained. Am I in the wrong for their misplaced phobia, especially when Tommy is literally minding his own business?!
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    Font - goldensand16. 12 days ago Certified Proctologist [26] NTA but get cameras. If they hate dogs that much I'd worry about what they will do.
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    Font - throw05282021 12 days ago Certified Proctologist [22] . NTA. Could be a cultural thing. I know several people who grew up outside of the US who are terrified of dogs and cats, even small ones, no matter how friendly or well mannered. I completely agree with you that they should move to an apartment building that doesn't allow pets. They could also ask the leasing staff to move them to a unit farther away from you. Asking you to not use the courtyard or the hallway outside their apartment
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    Human body - Contented Recluse 12 days ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] NTA They should move to a pet free apartment building, or one that has a 30 lb weight limit.
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    Font - TRextacy 11 days ago My wife and I had to spend so much time looking for a building that would allow our dog. She's 55 pounds so she's not tiny bit that's a very medium dog. Plenty of buildings had absurd weight limits, like 15-20 pounds. Our neighbor is TERRIFIED of our dog even though she's well behaved, has never barked at her, not even sniffed her. And honestly, I just don't care any more. If you can't handle being around dogs, live in the 90% of buildings that don't allow dogs, I don
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    Font - ParsimoniousSalad 12 days ago Sultan of Sphincter [730] . NTA. You have every right to walk your dog in the shared hall and courtyard. Their fear of dogs is their problem. But beware, when they realize they aren't getting their way they might try to leave out poison in the courtyard. Watch out for Tommy.
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    Font - MrFlitter 12 days ago NTA, camera up for evidence and keep a tight eye on Tommy in the courtyard, folks that don't like dogs seem to have a real nasty habit of leaving trapped treats. This sounds like either a culture clash (as folks have mentioned) or someone who has had a run in as a kid and taught that fear to daughter and grand daughter. Either way it is not on you when you are within the law and have made offers of concession to them. give Tommy some pets :D
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    Font - JJengaOrangeLeaf 12 days ago Partassipant [1] NTA! You are absolutely right that they should have moved somewhere without dogs if they have such a fear of them. If you have a deathly fear of aligators, you're not going to move to a complex that allows them. Plus, we all know how vicous golden retrievers can be your neighbors sound very entitled.
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